I have an older sister who is very serious about her studies. But I do a lot of other things such as reading, watching television, playing football etc. so, my study time comes down, but I do fairly well in class and examinations. My problem is that my parents keep on comparing me with my sister and ask me to study all the time. I hate it because I am not made that way. How can I make my parents understand this?
Each individual has their own interests and it is not good to compare on person with another, not even a sibling. Parents are concerned about you, and although it is genuine, you are getting irritated because of the comparison. Rather than getting agitated, think calmly if their concerns are genuine. Express to them that your interests are different. You have to give them the confidence that you will put in your best efforts in everything. To perform well in studies, you have to spend quality time. A proper balance of all the activities is important. Actions speak more than words. The anxiety of your parents is bothering you, so talk to them. Discuss the issue in a calm manner at an appropriate time. Be open to any suggestion also. Request them to stop such comparisons as they hurt you and seek their support to do well.
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