The gangs spread rumours that a boy liked my best friend

I’m in Class VII. First, let me tell you about my school. There are these so-called “gangs” – people with a “crush” on others – and then the “normal” people who hate these things. I belong to the latter category. This year, my best friend and I ended up in different sections. So people from the “gangs” took her in, even though she didn’t want to. The gangs spread rumours that a boy liked my best friend. She didn’t care about it until that boy actually told her he was interested in her. I have been sad ever since. Please do help me. I don’t know what to do.

You are in your adolescence and this is the stage when you understand and explore relationships and develop friendships. Be mindful of the situation. Understand your feelings and emotions. Introspect as to why you are upset. What is your friend’s reaction? Are you feeling intimidated? Are you being possessive about your friend? Do not develop the fear of losing your friend. Do not develop the fear of losing your friend. Have an open conversation with her. It is a transition stage and do not hesitate to seek help from trusted people. Be focussed. Be open to making new friends. Develop hobbies and ways to keep your mind and body fit. Do exercise and have a proper diet.

 

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