I’m unable to understand my friends

I am in Class VII. I hail from a northern State, now study in a southern State, and I’m unable to understand my friends. They constantly contact and disturb me via social media. Also, every day I leave home by bus at 6:45 a.m. and come back at 6:45 p.m. I want to secure the first rank in class. How can I manage to do it with all these?

Cultures and values differ when you come from a different place, and it takes time to understand others. Give yourself time. Show interest in their activities, but be clear on your values and boundaries. Never cross your limits or be exploited to make friends. A healthy friendship is very important. Being a good listener can help you understand them better. Choose friends who value your interests. As for your studies, your day is hectic and so it is essential to use your time efficiently. Do not compromise on your sleep, food and extra-curricular activities. Make use of travel time to complete everyday lessons. Set aside time to finish your writing since you cannot do it during travel. Also, try to make friends during your travel if you are commuting by your school bus. Spend quality time at home with your family too. You are very young and it is not good to get influenced by social media. Do not be harsh with your friends when they disturb you, express your opinion in a gentle manner.

 

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