I don’t want just a single friend

I am really close to my best friend. It’s real fun to be around her and I trust her too. In fact, we have become somewhat inseparable. Now, I have realized that our friendship has distanced me from my other friends. Although I am neither close to any of my other friends nor do we share much interests but it’s embarrassing and upsetting at the same time when I am no more part of our group. I enjoyed their company earlier but now I find them mostly uninteresting or too gossipy. I hate gossiping with them; their opinions and judgements unnecessarily ruin my friendship with others. I consciously choose to be away and so does my best friend, who never was a part of our group. I don’t want to lose my best friend, but at the same, I don’t want to be left with just a single friend. Also, some of those friends who were really close to me earlier, hardly speak with me now. Please help me.

If you consciously choose to be away from the company of your other friends because of your chosen “inseparable” best friend you should not complain about the expected negative result of being “left with just a single friend”. You have taken the decision of cutting yourself off from your other friends, with whom you do not share many interests and find “mostly uninteresting or too gossipy”. You have to decide what you want in life: close friends whom you can trust or non close, uninteresting and gossipy friends whom you do not like. The choice is yours.

Picture Credit : Google

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *