I’m in love with a 16-year-old guy who is a friend of mine. I really like him and I know he likes me too as he said so to my friends. He used to tell his friends that he likes me but he never asks me out. I am dying to be with him and I can’t live without him. But I can’t ask him out because I’m a girl and it would be very odd if I did that. If I’m not with him I can’t do anything properly. Please tell me what to do. How will I tell him that I love him?
You are in a relationship of friendship with a 16-year-old guy. You “really like him” and he “likes” you too. The problem is that you are changing your approach to him; you are upset because “he never asks me out”, you “are dying to be with him” and “can’t live without him”. You have moved out of friendship and entered into a deep attraction and infatuation towards him: without “him I can’t do anything properly”. That boy is still looking at you as a friend but you have moved on to a different kind of relationship. If you will tell him openly that you love him, he may be shocked and surprised. He may decide that he is not ready for that and you will lose his friendship. Love should be borne in the hearts of two persons and grow with time. Presently, only you have this kind of feeling; he does not seem to be interested in going beyond a friendship. Wait patiently for him to make up his mind.
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