I have a friend, my best friend since four years. Now she is angry with me just because I went out with another friend without her. I feel sorry now because I did this quite often. I have tried every means to make her happy. I send her a message almost every day but there is no reply. I even went to her house to ask for forgiveness but she ignored me and asked me to leave. I am really upset and don’t want to lose this friendship. Please help me.
I appreciate your desire for reconciliation with your friend who felt ignored and is now angry with you. You did all that you could, even went to meet her to ask for forgiveness. Unfortunately your friend, stubbornly stuck in jealousy and unforgiveness, asked you to leave. There is not much more that you can do except to pray for her that she may realize her stubbornness and come back to your friendship. Many times in this column we have stressed that friendship is founded on mutual trust, respect and forgiveness. A dialogue should be always open between two friends in order to solve any issue in peace and love, and to avoid misunderstandings. If your friend is not willing to change her attitude, learn from this experience and look out for some other good friendships.
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