I can’t stop thinking about her and our future

I am in love with a girl. I told her that I had feelings of love for her and she told me that she had the same feelings for me. She also said to me that we can handle these things later after we settle in our lives. I agreed with her. But I can’t stop thinking about her and our future and whether we have a good destiny in store for us.

Looks like you are so caught up in the unknown future that you are worried and anxious today.

If you notice, we always say the words ‘to fulfil one’s destiny’. It means that ‘good destiny’ is not ‘in store’ for us, but we create it by working to achieve our potential and successfully handling all problems that come our way.

Famous author Deepak Chopra says, “Our future is created from choices we make every minute.” Fulfilling your destiny depends on what you choose to do today. If you choose to worry about your future, then the outcome will be less than happy. Your attention will deviate from all that can help you live a good life. For example, focusing on studies will lead to a good qualification, which leads to a satisfying job/career, which provides income, which helps you settle well in life. Similarly, focusing on building a friendship with this girl today instead of overthinking about what might happen tomorrow helps build a sound relationship that can withstand any storms in life.

So, roll up your sleeves, and discover the joys of today, while preparing for tomorrow.

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