I have a best friend and we are super close. If I say we share the same heart and mind it wouldn’t be an exaggeration. We complete each other’s sentences, we read each other’s thoughts. I know it sounds like a cliche but that’s the truth! But, lately we’ve been having too many fights. Although, it doesn’t last more than 6 hours still I’m afraid it might affect our friendship and I don’t want to lose such a precious friend. We had about three fights in the past month which is too much for us. And worse, the reasons are way too stupid and silly. I know when you are very close to someone you are bound to have fights with them and later, solve it out, or so have I heard. But still I want to avoid such fights and I need your help. Nobody understands me the way she does. I know this might not be even a real problem but I’ve experienced the pain of losing a best friend and I don’t want to go through that again. Please help.
It is sad to read that 2 friends “who share the same heart and mind” should quarrel for silly reasons. Could it be that both of you want to have the last word in any matter? Or could it be that you are hiding from each other a feeling of superiority? Good relationships are built on a mutual give and take attitude motivated by love. Sit down together, look into each other’s eyes and try to get to the root of the problem. Ask pardon from each other for past mistakes and harsh judgements. Make a new, humble beginning to your friendship.
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