My confidence is totally shaken

My problem is that I have become too sensitive since my dad’s death and my negative thinking has shaken my confidence. As I’m the only daughter my mom has many dreams for me. She wants me to do B.E. but I’m not so good in maths. I want to become a writer but to make her happy I decided to do B.E. I was a topper till Std X but scored just 70% in Std XII. My family members are too upset. As I get emotionally attached very soon, people hurt me. My confidence is totally shaken after the Std XII result. Please help me.

Your negative thinking after your dad’s death and your Std XII results has badly shaken your self-confidence. Though you wanted to become a writer and knew that you were not so good in maths you decided to do B.E. in order to make your mother happy. Because of that wrong decision you are now unhappy and your family members are too upset. I advise you to speak frankly to some of your lecturers who know you well and get their opinion on the possibility for you to get through in your B.E. studies. If they give you a negative opinion, it is better that you speak to your mother and try to convince her to allow you to change your course of studies.

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