My boyfriend and I love each other a lot. Everything was fine while we were living in the same town but this year I had to shift to Gurgaon. That was fine for a few months until he stopped calling me. He does not even reply to my messages. I am very hurt. Sometimes I think that he might not be able to receive my calls but mostly I feel that he does not love me anymore. We share a very strong relationship that cannot break down so easily. I am confused. What am I to do?
Your boyfriend’s attitude towards you has changed since you left the same town; he stopped calling you and even replying to your messages. This is a clear indication that his relationship with you was mostly based on a physical attraction. When he could not see you regularly as before, he lost interest. This kind of relationship is called ‘infatuation’. You feel hurt because your attitude towards him was different and not just based on physical attraction. You should learn that, at your age, boys and girls may have different emotional reactions in relationships. Therefore, do not be too quick in putting the label of “love” to any relationship, e.g., when you write: “My boyfriend and I love each other a lot.”
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