I am a 14-year-old girl. I have had only one boy in my heart for the last 8 years and now I want to forget about him. He is a flirt and I know he has three crushes in our class. I’ve done all I can to forget him. I don’t love him now, it’s just that I want to forget him and start a new love life. I’ve said ‘no’ to many guys because I just cannot forget him. But I can’t bring myself to love him anymore.
Dear little girl , from the tender age of 6 you “have had only one boy” in your heart. This is commonly called: ‘puppy love’. The teen age is the age of frequent infatuations (“he has three crushes in our class”); this should not surprise you as you yourself, at the age of 14, are looking forward to starting a new love life. At this age it is better to speak of friendship rather than love in your relationships.
