I was in a hostel for four years but now I’ve left it. I had many friends there but now I’m not in touch with them. I feel very lonely and if I send them mails they do not reply. I worry that people might be spreading rumours about me because there were a few who were jealous of me as I was a bright and brilliant student. I get the feeling that that is why I am losing friends. What should I do?
Hello dear, instead of moving on into new friendships in your new place, you are still emotionally attached to your previous hostel friends. Unlike you, they have moved on and are busy with their studies and friendships. The teen age is the age of new experiences and learning. It is not wrong to remember old friends, but do not get stuck into fears of people being “jealous” of you and that some people are spreading rumours about you. Do not live in the past; you may miss the present.
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