I’m sick of my parents’ over-expectations. Because of studies they asked me to let go of all my hobbies. They don’t even want me to listen to music or watch TV. I’ve tried to do this, still I get a scolding. This frustrates me a lot. Now I’m good at nothing; forcefully doing my duties. This has changed me. Now I don’t like to talk to anyone, I’m not eating properly, always lying on my bed simply; always seeking loneliness. I’m very worried about my career.
The over-expectations of parents for their children are often caused by the desire to assure them a good and successful future life. A strict attitude of this kind can result in ignoring and suffocating the natural talents and aspirations of their children, sending them into depression and isolation. Success in life does not depend only on getting good marks in school or college, but also on developing good, inter-personal relationships, talents and original skills. These too should be encouraged by the parents. In your case, I suggest you share your problem with a good and trustworthy teacher or school counsellor who can talk to your parents and help them change their strict attitude.
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