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I am in Std XI and I love a girl in my class. But whenever I talk to her she teases me with another girl’s name. She does not know about my feelings and I am unable to express them to her. How can I express my feelings to her?

The girl you “love” in your class teases you “with another girl’s name” when you want to talk to her. He is not taking the relationship with you seriously and is making fun of you. As you are unable to express your feelings to her, it is better for you to be a good and simple friend to her without pretending to talk too much about feelings that are not yet clear to you and are unable to express.

 

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I’m a 15-year-old girl and I’m very lonely. I don’t have a friend with whom I can share my feelings and thoughts. I want to join dance classes but my parents won’t allow it. I am a very active girl, but my parents are making my mind weak by keeping me at home. I don’t know what to do. Sometimes I think I should commit suicide. I love my parents. But they don’t understand me. I enjoy school, but at home I am very lonely.

I am sorry to read that you don’t have a friend with whom to share your feelings and thoughts. You feel that your parents are making your mind weak by keeping you at home. Unfortunately sometimes you think of committing suicide. This is a serious situation because you love your parents but judge them unable to understand you. Your parents who brought you into this world and care for you every day have your life and future in their hearts. You should enter into a respectful and loving dialogue with them, maybe with the help of a good family friend or relation. You could also share the situation with a good school teacher or counsellor who could talk to your parents. Go on loving your parents and trust them.

 

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I love a girl but she doesn’t love me. She loves someone else. But that boy has one more girlfriend in his life which this girl doesn’t know anything about. All of our friends tease us that we love each other. I think she loves me, but I have a problem. But my sister doesn’t like that girl. When I speak to her, my sister sometimes doesn’t talk to me and ignores me; she has a lot of negative attitude and sometimes gives me back answers. I love my sister very much. What should I do?

In your letter there are many negative situations: you love a girl “but she doesn’t love” you, “she loves someone else”, all your friends “tease us that we love each other”, your “sister doesn’t like that girl, when I speak to her, my sister sometimes doesn’t talk to you and ignores you”, you love your sister “very much” and do not know what to do. You cannot handle so many negative situations. At this moment of your life it is better for you to concentrate on your studies, family and good friends. A beautiful friendly relationship is better than a complicated and painful “love”.

 

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