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I am in class 12. I have a secret crush on a girl in class 10 from my own school, but she has a crush on my classmate. She does not use a cell phone and she’s not on any social networking site, due to which I cannot express my feelings. I feel shy to propose to her face to face because of the fear of being rejected. But whenever I talk to her, I feel that she’s comfortable with me. What should I do?

You have a secret crush on a girl who does not use a cell phone nor is on any networking site. Because of this, you are unable or unwilling to talk to her face to face, fearing rejection. In this situation it is better for you to wait until you gather enough courage to talk to her or she will make up her mind: either to concentrate on her studies, or to carry on the crush she has with one of your classmates or to accept your proposal (if and when you will do that). If you do not feel confident to talk to a girl, you are not yet ready for a relationship with her.

 

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My 17-year-old son is not at all interested in studies. He is only interested in playing football and late nights out. At a tender age he’s picked up bad habits like smoking and drinking. His food habits are not appropriate. He loses his temper easily and is very undisciplined. What should I do?

The upbringing of a son is the duty and responsibility of both parents. Did you and your husband approach your son with one heart and mind? Have you spoken to him clearly about your expectations and love for him? How could he spend late nights out and pick up “bad habits of smoking and drinking” without the parents’ knowledge and consent? Who gave him the money for such bad habits? These questions have to be answered and solutions found together in the family as soon as possible.

 

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